The silly girl who used to laugh out laud until she was told she was being rude…
The carefree girl who loved jumping, dancing and singing until she was told to behave properly….
The free spirited girl who knew she was being loved until she was told she needed to be a good girl to deserve love…
With every hateful word, with every criticism, with every love withdrawal she has received she has gotten pushed more and more into a deep place where she didn’t want to be …..and she has stayed there because that’s the only place where she feels safe now……
It’s DARK. It’s FEARFUL. it’s COLD. It’s NOT LOVING. ….but It’s safe…..at least she thinks so.
She is scared to death to be HERSELF so she stays hidden, putting on a FACADE when talking to people, covering up the pain with the “I’M FINE” mask when meeting up with friends, and keeping busy with schedules, tasks and planning…
….thinking “as long as I keep being STRONG and BUSY, I’ll go through this day and this life just fine….”
She doesn’t want to just go through life, only existing. SHE WANTS TO FEEL ALIVE!!!!
…AND SHE IS THROWING TANTRUMS BECAUSE SHE IS NOT HEARD…
….AND SHE IS CRYING BECAUSE SHE FEELS HELPLESS…
…AND SHE IS SCREAMING ON THE INSIDE BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO GET OUT ….
The women who reach out to me for help are telling me they do remember her. And they want to get her back. They want to find her and bring her alive again.
They are tired of wearing the mask, pretending everything is fine while with each year there are more and more symptoms and pain to be managed. They just want to be themselves again – FREE, HEALTHY, HAPPY AND FEELING LOVED!
…and those who do not give up on that scared little girl will get her back! The same way as the amazing client, who had told me she didn’t know what real love was, and couldn’t feel or receive love….and today after just 2 weeks being in the program sent me a note that for the first time she FELT LOVE, ending the note with a simple but powerful 6 words:
“I am so proud of myself!’
And I’m proud of her, for not giving up on herself.
I know it’s scary to take the first step. But isn’t it scarier to stay the way you are and just hoping it won’t get worse?
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